Blue Light Apartment cover art

Song · Blue Light Apartment

Don't Thank Me for Staying

“Don't Thank Me for Staying” is track 7 on Rob Matare's R&B album Blue Light Apartment, released November 3, 2026. Late-night R&B about putting your name on the lease and staying when it would be easier to leave. Twelve slow songs, one blue light.

Rob MatareR&B2:52Love & Relationships

Watch the lyric video

Don't Thank Me for Staying — lyric video

“Don't Thank Me for Staying” lyrics

You brought dinner to the bedroom
Said you knew I'd had a week
I was smiling at the kindness
I was struggling to eat
You've been thanking me for staying
I've been hiding in the thanks

Don't thank me for staying
I'm not really in the room
You deserve a hand that reaches
Not a hand afraid to move

I put down the little dinner tray
I said we need to talk
You were looking at my suitcase
Before I even brought it out
I thought I was being gentle
You said you had known for months

Don't thank me for staying
I'm not really in the room
You deserve a hand that reaches
Not a hand afraid to move

I was waiting for forgiveness
Before I told you what was wrong
You were waiting for the truth
And I made you wait too long

Don't thank me for staying
I'm not really in the room
You deserve a hand that reaches
Not a hand afraid to move

Don't thank me for staying
I should've let you choose

Lyrics written by Rob Matare. Written by me • made with AI. Artist visuals are digitally created.

More from Blue Light Apartment

  1. 1Say It First3:19
  2. 2Put Your Name on the Lease3:19
  3. 3Same Side of the Booth3:19
  4. 4Close Enough to Wait2:42
  5. 5Blue Light Apartment3:23
  6. 6Two A.M. Record3:29
  7. 8Sema Saa3:10
  8. 9Wild in Your Hands3:23
  9. 10Gold Watch, Empty Kitchen3:19
  10. 11The Only Reason I Come Down3:30
  11. 12One More Block Together2:38

Previews provided courtesy of iTunes. Listen on Apple Music